therapy for your connection.

couples therapy for neurodiverse, non-monagamous, or disconnected romantic partners

For Relationships That Don’t Fit The Mold
Therapy That Doesn’t Either


Couples and relationship therapy at The Rooted Brain meets your brain - and your relationship - where it’s at. For neurodiverse couples and polycules, communication can feel like a minefield, and connection can seem like a moving target. You're not broken—your nervous systems and neurotypes are just speaking different languages. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help partners move out of conflict cycles and into deeper understanding. Sessions are adapted to each person’s neurotype, attachment style, and communication needs—whether you’re navigating a monogamous, polyamorous, or non-traditional relational structure. Using an in-the-moment model like EFT means all the work happens in the session, no homework required!

What to Expect

Affirming Care for Neurodiverse & Non-Monogamous Relationships
Whether you’re part of an autistic-allistic couple, an ADHD-autistic partnership, or a multi-partner polycule, we create a space that honors each person’s identity, boundaries, and needs. My office welcomes ethically non-monogamous and polyamorous partnerships, relationship anarchy, chosen family dynamics, and queer, trans, and neurodivergent identities.

Work We May Do Together

  • Mapping reactive or disconnecting cycles

  • Navigating attachment needs across partners

  • Unpacking neurotype-related triggers and communication breakdowns

  • Clarifying agreements, boundaries, and expectations

  • Processing jealousy, compersion, and emotional regulation in multi-partner dynamics

  • Repairing ruptures and strengthening trust

You’ll Leave Therapy With

  • A deeper understanding of your relational system

  • Success in vulnerability - practice with emotional expression and sharing needs

  • Tools for co-regulation, boundary setting, and repair

  • A shared roadmap for connection across neurotypes and identities

  • More compassion—for yourself, your partner, and your relationship

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